Reality TV stars and fan-favorites Jay and Pamela share their pearls of wisdom for couples this Valentine’s week. In a recent Instagram post, the two shared “love lessons.” It is the couple’s way to express the love they share.
Jay and Pamela rose to fame as the couple on TLC’s Jay & Pamela, who happen to share the same rare brittle bone disorder. The couple is both successful in their careers and will be returning to the screen soon. They are sharing love and wisdom that works for them as a couple. Keep reading to learn what wisdom they shared.
Where Are Jay & Pamela Now After The Show?
Jay and Pamela became famous as the couple who suffer from brittle bone disorder that makes them shorter than most people. The reality TV show took fans through their lives and showed how hard they worked to be more independent while managing family dynamics. Season 1 of the show ended with Jay & Pamela tying the knot, which was something Jay never thought would happen. It was a truly emotional finale.
The couple is now thriving. Jay, with Instagram handle MiniProducer, announced a career milestone recently. He is now officially a Billboard-charting music producer. Jay helped produce the song “Love Cure” by Chris Redding, featuring Lachi, a Grammy-nominated artist. The song reached No.13 on the Billboard charts in Luxembourg. He felt surreal announcing it. As for Pamela, she works as a bilingual at a major corporate company.
Jay & Pamela’s Simple Love Advice For Valentine’s Day Is Communication
In a recent Instagram post, the reality stars Jay & Pamela dish out their first love lesson on this Valentine’s week. Their topic for the first-ever lesson: Communication. Jay shares that communication is less about what one wants to say and more about how they say it. Pamela points to their dog, Cheddar, saying their pet is the referee. Cheddar starts barking whenever the couple argues too loudly.
Pamela also reports that she and Jay no longer have loud yelling matches when they argue. Now they are all toned down, thanks to Cheddar. Jay uses the metaphor of a hamster cycling on the wheel; he advises fans to get off the cycle and walk it off. The couple also shares the idea of a “time out” as a way to deal with arguments. Pamela shares that when they need a timeout, they communicate a time frame.
Pamela shares from experience that couples often avoid discussing the matter and only approach it after the time frame. She also notes that Jay takes the timeframe seriously. When the time frame expires, Jay comes to resolve the matter immediately. Jay also playfully adds that Pamela needs at least two hours of time frame.
Pamela adds, “Okay, scientist,” and asks if he has a spreadsheet on that information. She also believes it’s beautiful that Jay notices these things. Fans love the couple and wrote in the comments, “They are great people. I really like them.” Another added, “Healthy communication is the key to a fantastic relationship.” For more Jay & Pamela updates, follow TV Season & Spoilers.
