When it comes to love, sometimes first choices aren’t the final ones—and Match Me Abroad star Monica Durazo is proving exactly that. The 40-year-old single mom, who joined the hit TLC dating show to find her happily-ever-after in Brazil, is speaking out after her headline-making switch-up in one of the show’s most dramatic love triangles.
The Shocking On-Screen Decision
Viewers watched Monica face an impossible situation: two men, Bernardo and Bruno, both vying for her heart. Under pressure and in front of the cameras, Monica initially chose Bruno, the man who seemed to display affection and consistency more openly. The move left fans stunned, especially since many had sensed undeniable sparks between her and Bernardo.
But the twist didn’t end there. Shortly after, Monica pivoted—returning to Bernardo and leaving audiences divided over whether she had made the right call or simply added fuel to the show’s drama.
Monica Speaks Out
Now, Monica is breaking her silence, insisting that despite appearances, her actions came from a place of honesty.
“I still stand by that decision,” Monica told interviewers. “When you’re in the moment, you can only go with what feels right. Bruno showed me consistency, but with Bernardo, I felt something deeper—something real.”
She admitted the pressure of having to decide so publicly played a role in how events unfolded. “You’re standing there, two amazing men in front of you, cameras rolling—it’s overwhelming. I needed more time, but reality TV doesn’t give you that.”
Why Bernardo Won Out
According to Monica, her heart simply wouldn’t let go of Bernardo. “He’s humble, genuine, and has this quiet strength that just draws me in,” she explained. While Bruno seemed like the “safer” choice on paper, Bernardo embodied the long-term values she wanted—kindness, loyalty, and authenticity.
Her matchmaker Luiza also encouraged her to look beyond surface-level chemistry and focus on deeper life foundations, something Monica says ultimately guided her back to Bernardo.
Fan Reactions
Social media lit up with mixed reactions. Some praised Monica for trusting her instincts, while others criticized her for appearing indecisive or unfair to Bruno. Still, Monica says she has no regrets.
“People can judge, and that’s fine. At the end of the day, I’m the one who has to live with this choice. And right now, I’m happy with where my heart has led me.”
The Bigger Picture
Reality TV fans know that unexpected twists are part of what keeps shows like Match Me Abroad so addictive. But for Monica, this wasn’t just drama—it was her real love life unfolding on screen.
Whether audiences cheer her on or roll their eyes, Monica’s message is clear: she followed her heart, even if it meant shaking up the game. And in her words, “I’d rather be true to myself than stick to a decision that doesn’t feel right.”
